Understanding the Predatory Mindset: Why You’re Just Prey in the Man's World

Hi guys, I'm here today to share a very important message with you. In light of recent events in my life and everything happening to women in public media, I want to speak directly to every woman out there:

You are prey.

If you’re not fully aware of human nature, that might sound dramatic. But let me explain.

When many men seek out women, it’s for one of two reasons: to fulfill a sexual urge or to find prey. I was 17 when I finally understood that most men will never see women as their equals. They see us as pleasure and prey.

Some men will study you for weeks, months, even years. They learn what you like and mirror it. Not because they want you, but because they want to conquer you. Especially if you’re spiritual, marriage-oriented, or deeply principled. They’ll present themselves as the man you prayed for. The good man. The soulmate. The one your ancestors sent.

Because they know: when a man paints himself as a “good guy,” he doesn’t have to lie to you. You’ll lie to yourself for him.

It starts small:

• “Maybe he really is tired from work.”

• “Maybe his phone really was dead for 48 hours.”

• “Maybe that was just his cousin twerking on him at that party.”

  
  

The gag is; maybe it’s all a load of bullshit.

Men pick their victims carefully. They don’t chase the girls who tolerate anything. That’s too easy. They want the boss babes. The “untouchable.” The “too good for him” girls. The challenge.

So if you’ve ever wondered, “Why me?” Here's your answer: Because you reminded him of what he lacked. Because you were better. Too beautiful. Too smart. Too successful. Too confident.

And he couldn’t stand it.

Listen for the warning signs:

• “You’re too good for me.”

• “I don’t know how I pulled you.”

• “I’ll never live up to your expectations.”

  
  

RUN. That man is about to cross every boundary you’ve ever set.

Here’s one thing I do know about men: they love power. Not just power, they love proximity to power. And nothing gives them more satisfaction than thinking they can tame your power. They can steal it. Break it.

But here’s what they always forget: a woman’s power can never truly be taken, only forgotten. And the day she remembers it? She becomes dangerous.

And men? They're the biggest groupies in history.

Let’s talk about Halle Bailey and her child's father. Not to judge, but to observe. I don’t know the full details, but from the outside, it looks like a classic case of a man using a powerful woman to extend his own relevance. Let’s be honest: without that relationship, his moment was fading. Just like King Bach he was huge in 2015, irrelevant in 2025. But because of Halle, the father of her child will always be attached to something bigger than himself. He’ll always have a tie to power.

Some people are okay being remembered as the baby daddy. If they like it, I love it.

But this isn’t just about them. This is global.

Women are being tricked out of their spot every day.

A man almost tricked me out of mine once. But I promise you, it’ll be a cold day in hell before that happens.

Men will tell themselves: “If I can get her and ruin her confidence, her perspective, her self-worth… the power she had will transfer to me.”

Thank God for my ex and his power trip. Without him, I would’ve never seen the playbook.

Predators don’t go for easy prey. They go for the prize. The one that shines. The one that makes them feel small.

But like a child on December 26th once they’ve unwrapped the gift, the thrill is gone. And they’re on to the next shiny toy they’ll abuse and discard.

There’s a saying my sister and I live by: “You can’t play with the divine.”

That might go over some people’s heads, but those who get it, get it.

When a woman has a purpose larger than life, nothing can stop her. Every obstacle becomes alchemy. Every setback, a setup. Every betrayal, a breakthrough.

So to every woman reading this: wake up.

Stop doubting your power. Stop downplaying your intuition. Stop romanticizing disrespect.

You’re not here to be prey. You’re here to remember who you are, and rise like you were always meant to.

— Amere